Should both spouses sign the wedding thank you card?

Both names should appear on a wedding thank-you card, but both people do not have to physically sign every one. Splitting the writing is completely normal.

• Divide the list: one of you writes to your family and friends, the other to theirs.
• Sign both names at the bottom regardless of who wrote the note.
• Keep it personal: a short handwritten line matters more than who held the pen.

This approach keeps a large thank-you list manageable while still feeling thoughtful to every recipient.