How soon after a funeral should I send thank you cards?

There is no rush. Sending funeral thank you cards within one to three months is perfectly acceptable, and people understand that grief takes time.

• Timing: anytime within one to three months is respectful.
• Who to thank: those who sent flowers, brought food, made a donation, or attended the service.
• Keep it brief: a short, sincere acknowledgment is more than enough.
• No pressure: write when you feel ready, not on a strict schedule.

A few honest sentences carry more weight than a long letter, and no one expects you to write at length during a hard season.