Question
How soon after a wedding should I send thank you cards?
Answer
Aim to send wedding thank you cards within three months of the ceremony, and sooner whenever you can. The gap between the gift and the note is what people notice most.
| Gift timing | Send thank you within |
|---|---|
| Received before the wedding (shower, early gifts) | 2 weeks |
| Received at or after the reception | Aim for 4 to 6 weeks; 3 months is the outer etiquette limit |
- Treat three months as the hard boundary, not the target.
- Start writing during quiet moments, even on your honeymoon downtime.
- Keep a running list of gifts as they arrive so no one gets missed.
- A prompt note always feels more genuine than one that arrives right at the deadline.
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