When should save-the-dates go out?

Timing depends on how far guests need to plan, but the general rule is to give people plenty of runway before invitations arrive.

• Local weddings: mail 8 to 12 months out so guests can hold the date.
• Destination weddings: aim for the full 12 months so people can book flights, lodging, and time off.
• Peak dates: holidays and long weekends fill up fast, so lean toward the earlier end.
• Short engagements: if your wedding is under 4 months away, skip save-the-dates and send formal invitations directly.

Save-the-dates serve a different purpose from invitations and need to land months earlier, so do not wait for the invitation timeline. Once your date and venue are locked, there is no reason to wait. Getting save-the-dates out early is one of the easiest ways to boost your attendance.